In case you’ve missed the last couple of episodes of Love & Hip Hop Hollywood, Ray J has been going through it with his ex Teairra Marie. She still loves him, but he has a new girlfriend, Princess, and Teairra recently tried to fight his new girl at a party. For revenge, Ray stopped by her tattoo removal party unannounced and threw her leftover belongings from his house (including Monistat) on the floor in front of all of her friends. How dreadful! As a result, the Detroit came out of Teairra, and she mushed him right in the face.

When Ray J broke the story down to Brandy, she was not impressed, and gave her a little piece of her mind:

“Sometimes I can’t believe we have the same mom and dad, it’s unbelievable. You have no business going there to begin with. That was stupid.[…]That’s what’s wack. That it was tit-for-tat for somebody you’re not even with. You put yourself in situations you don’t have to be in. At some point you have to tell yourself, like, I’m a man now. I’m an adult. In order to see different results in your life, you gotta do different things.  You have to stay focused on what’s gonna make you better, what’s gonna continue to uplift you. That’s what you have to focus on.

Man, can you imagine what the conversation between Brandy and Ray J was like after he released the Kim K diss “I Hit It First?” She don’t play!